Tips for Making a Decision

Should I take this job? Should I purchase this house? Should I end this relationship?

We’re all faced with decisions that have the potential to change the course of our lives. It can feel so stressful and overwhelming when we’re having to choose!

Here are some tips to find clarity and make the process less stressful.


Most people drain so much energy when making decisions because they’re afraid that they’re going to make the “wrong” decision.

Your life is a journey of learning and spiritual growth to become more loving. Your journey is different than everybody else’s because we’re all learning different subjects from different schools.

Therefore, at the end of the day, each decision that you make is perfect FOR YOU at that time, regardless of what ends up happening. If something “bad” ends up happening because of that decision, it’s merely a lesson for your journey.

I also believe that we incarnate in many, many different lifetimes to continue these lessons. If you screw it up this round, you’ll have many, many opportunities to get it right!


In prayer or meditation, ask your guides for a sign. Say something like, “Okay guides…..if choosing ___________is for my highest good and the highest good of all, I want to see a bald eagle in the next 3 days.” That way….YOU KNOW!

Be specific though! In the example above, you might see a stuffed animal bald eagle and wonder if that is the sign. Be sure to specify how and when you want to see your sign.


Most people evaluate the practical, black and white, intellectual pieces when making a decision. While practical pieces need to make sense for you, at the end of the day, this decision needs to feel good for you.

Ask yourself: How does this make me feel? Does this bring me peace?

Evaluate Feelings: Fear and excitement can feel very similar. Ask yourself, “Is this fear or excitement?”

Here VS There: Ask yourself, “Would I regret not taking this opportunity VS staying where I’m at?


During a Holy Fire® Karuna Reiki® session, the first thing that I do is clear the client’s energy field. As we go through life, we give our energy away, and also take on other peoples’ energy.

When we carry others’ energy, and our energy is missing, our faculties to make good decisions are highly impaired.

Trying to make a decision in this state is like trying to run a marathon while carrying someone on your shoulders and not wearing shoes.

If it’s been a while since you’ve had a session and you’re needing to make a big decision, schedule a Holy Fire® Karuna Reiki® session today!


The most important key to making good decisions is having direct access to our intuition. Our intuition is the pathway to our most authentic self that is connected to Source. It is not our wounds, our past, or our ego. It is the “IT” answer for us.

Starting on March 17th, I’ll be hosting a 7 week group coaching event to teach you how to access this important part of yourself. When you can access your intuition, it will CHANGE YOUR LIFE!

Click HERE for more details!

Much love and light to you today, and remember, you can’t screw it up!